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“What inspired you to leave your job and start on this journey?”  

is what a kid asked me following a talk I gave on “Entrepreneurship and Innovation” at IIT Kanpur, one of the kids caught up with me in the corridor. I believe where words fall short, poems come to the rescue!

I wish I could have shared with him this poem that I wrote 9 years back, to give him a glimpse of the mindset that inspired my life altering shift to experiential learning from the good ol’ corporate life.

Two plus two makes four my boy,
“Walk along the straight line”.
Don’t dare turn left, when we say right,
Fall in line, obey, comply.

March on, look right ahead,
Stomp your foot – straight in line.
Up goes the hand, that chin up too,
Not a thought from you – Robot man.

This is your world – one size for all,
Everyone a bottle of coke.
Same size, same shape, standardize,
Same thoughts, no voice – you realize?

ok, here’s the dare:
First fall out of line,
Walk zig-zag – hop skip and then jump.
Now take that lane, yes that offbeat one,
Go on – walk on – explore.

Out at the other end now,
What did you see?
What did you learn?
What did you uncover?

It’s not the “what” that’s important,
But the fact that you “did”,
Just listen to your own drummer my friend,
For the music always tops the coke!!

The risk, most of us are told, is in doing things that are unconventional. But, every time I sit and look back at the 9 years past, and I know that is, in fact, flawed thinking. The actual risk is

In following the tried and tested path,
In not living life on the edge,
In playing safe;
In knowing with a fair degree of certainty how the next month and the year after will turn out to be,
In knowing all the answers,
In not ever having butterflies in your tummy!

My two cents to it all is that –

“Don’t ever take such risks in your life. After all, you just have one!”

Most of us have been a part of the recruitment process in our lives, either as a recruiter or someone getting recruited. And, if you think back to the first step of the entire process – it was probably the job description, wasn’t it?

Continue reading “How To Improve Your Hiring Process Beyond Job Descriptions?”

A great and practical guide to help any leader transition into a new job, position, and organisation, within the first quarter or more specifically – 90 days, this book is a treasure chest of knowledge!

Continue reading “10 Lessons From “The First 90 Days” by Michael D. Watkins”

Introduction

Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (November 24, 1888 – November 1, 1955) was an American writer and lecturer, and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills.
His book, “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living,” Dale speaks about making realistic changes that can help one to stop worrying. He mentions in the preface of this wonderful book as to how he decided to write this book to help himself. He was a self-proclaimed unhappy lad in the happy city of New York. He also mentions that later in life, while he prepared himself to teach adults, he realized that one of the biggest problems faced by the everyone is that they do not know how to handle their worries, and this eats up the joy of living. He mentions that there is no textbook that teaches one to deal with their worries, and therefore he decided to write one himself.

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Thinking is the ultimate human resource. And, yet we can never be satisfied with our most important skill. No matter how good we become, we should always want to be better. The biggest enemy of thinking is complexity, as for that leads to confusion. When thinking is clear and simple, it becomes more enjoyable and more effective. The six thinking hats concept, described in this book is not only very simple to understand, it is also very simple to use.

Continue reading “Book Learning: The Six Thinking Hats by Dr Edward de Bono”

I am someone who sleeps like a baby, but last night was different. I kept tossing and turning and after barely managing to sleep for a couple of hours, I woke up with a headache. Reason for this being, I had a bad day yesterday. I failed. I failed to deliver a session as well as I had planned it. The incident yesterday got me to thinking

Continue reading “Why Failure Paves The Way For Success?”