Introduction: Leadership Through the Power of Story
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At FocusU, we have always believed that storytelling is not just a soft skill. It is a powerful way to create connection, build memory, and drive deep reflection. Over the years, I have seen how a well-told story can bring even the most complex leadership principles to life. It is one thing to read a framework. It is another to feel its impact through a narrative that hits home.
That is why when I picked up The Secret of Leadership by Prakash Iyer, it instantly felt like a familiar conversation. The book is made up of sixty simple, relatable stories. Each one holds a leadership gem. No jargon. No theory-heavy chapters. Just life told through events, people, and moments that we can all relate to.
From the very first page, I knew this book would stay with me.
The Climb That Sets the Tone
The opening story about Sir Edmund Hillary sets the foundation beautifully. After failing in one of his earlier Everest attempts, Hillary is quoted as saying, “I will come again and conquer you. Because as a mountain, you cannot grow. But as a human, I can.”
This one line sums up the essence of growth. It is not about what challenges we face. It is about how we face them, how we learn, and how we return stronger.
That, to me, is leadership. And that is what this book continues to reinforce through every chapter.
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The PhD Mantra: Passion, Hunger, Discipline
One of the earliest stories that stayed with me was what Prakash Iyer calls the PhD mantra. It stands for Passion, Hunger, and Discipline. These three words, he says, are at the core of every successful leader’s journey.
And he is right. I have seen it in so many of the people I admire. They may come from very different walks of life, but these three traits are always there.
In the workplace, talent alone rarely guarantees results. It is often the person who shows up every day with consistency, with curiosity, and with grit, who rises steadily and sustainably.
Workplace Takeaway:
If you want to grow as a leader, nurture a hunger for improvement. Be curious. Show up with passion. And let discipline become your secret advantage.
Also Read: How to Never Stop Learning and Growing
The One-Man Band: Belief Comes Before Ability
The story of Adkins, a man who taught himself to become a literal one-man band, is both amusing and deeply insightful. It reminds us that often, our biggest roadblock is not skill. It is the belief that we do not have what it takes.
At work, how many times have you stopped yourself from trying something because you thought you were not ready? I know I have. But the truth is, no one starts ready. We become ready by doing.
Workplace Takeaway:
Leadership begins with belief. Belief creates momentum. And momentum builds skill.
“This Is Good”: The Power of Perspective
In a story that has stayed with me long after I read the book, Iyer talks about a tribal king whose trusted friend would say, in response to every situation, “This is good.”
At first, it sounds naive. But as the story unfolds, it becomes clear that this mindset is what enables the friend to stay calm, focused, and even grateful through adversity.
I have seen leaders like this. In the middle of pressure, they smile. They adapt. They do not crumble. They lead, not by pretending all is fine, but by choosing to find opportunity within chaos.
Workplace Takeaway:
Your attitude shapes your outcomes. Optimism is not blind faith. It is clarity plus courage.
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The Frog and the TV Tower: Silence the Doubters
This fable of the frog climbing the TV tower while everyone around discouraged it is a metaphor many of us can relate to. In the workplace, there is no shortage of critics. Sometimes, the biggest critic is our own inner voice.
As I read this chapter, I thought about the goals I had put on hold simply because I had allowed too much external noise to drown out my inner clarity.
Workplace Takeaway:
The ability to pursue your goals quietly, consistently, and without drama is a superpower. Especially when the world expects you to quit.
Related Reading: 5 Steps To Move Away From Negativity
Keep Your Cool: Words Matter
This story, of a boy who is taught the impact of harsh words, reminded me of a moment from my own leadership journey. I had given what I thought was constructive feedback to a colleague, but I did not consider the tone. The words lingered longer than I had expected, and not in a good way.
Prakash Iyer reminds us that leadership is about responsibility. And part of that responsibility is communication that heals, not hurts.
Workplace Takeaway:
Words can inspire or wound. Use them mindfully. Feedback is only useful when it is delivered with empathy.
Also Read: Why Communication Is An Important Leadership Trait
The Mahout’s Stick: The Simplicity of Persistence
The story of the mahout and the elephant’s trunk is a simple one. Yet it captures a truth that I have seen play out repeatedly. The first solution we try might not work. The second might not either. But persistence, matched with a willingness to adapt, almost always wins.
When we coach new managers, this is something we keep reinforcing. Your job is not to get it right the first time. Your job is to keep learning and improving.
Workplace Takeaway:
Leadership is a long game. Those who keep showing up, adjusting their approach, and staying humble often go further than those who rely only on talent.
From Story to Practice: Bringing Lessons to Life
What I loved most about this book is that it is not prescriptive. It is reflective. It nudges you to look at your own experiences, your team, and your choices, and ask where can I be better?
In fact, after reading this book, we even included a few of its stories in our team workshops. They created rich conversations. Not because they were complex. But because they were deeply relatable.
If you are running leadership programs or people development workshops, consider using these stories. They offer a gentle way to explore tough questions.
Here are some examples:
- The frog story can spark a discussion on self-doubt and imposter syndrome
- The one-man band story is great for skill-building conversations
- The “this is good” story works beautifully in sessions on change management or resilience
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Leadership Is Built on Moments
Reading The Secret of Leadership reminded me that leadership is not one grand moment. It is hundreds of small ones.
- Choosing to speak up when it is easier to stay silent
- Encouraging a team member even when you are tired
- Saying thank you after a long day
- Owning a mistake publicly
- Or simply choosing to believe in someone when they do not yet believe in themselves
All of these are leadership acts. All of them matter.
Final Thoughts: The Book That Keeps Giving
If you are looking for a book that is easy to read but rich in wisdom, The Secret of Leadership will not disappoint. And if you are like me, you will find yourself going back to it again and again.
It is not just a book for leaders. It is a book for people who want to make a difference. Whether you are mentoring a team, coaching emerging managers, or trying to unlock your own next level, these stories can serve as stepping stones.
So yes, go ahead and add this one to your shelf. But more importantly, bring its lessons into your meetings, conversations, and daily decisions.
And if you are ever lucky enough to attend a leadership session by Prakash Iyer himself, do it. His storytelling is just as impactful in person.
What I Took Away
To wrap up, here is my personal reflection:
- Leadership begins within. If you want to inspire others, first align yourself.
- Consistency matters more than brilliance. Show up every day.
- Every leader needs a story. And every story can become a lesson.
Let’s keep learning. Let’s keep leading. And let’s remember that even small stories can spark big change.
